Your body is a divine temple and the house for your mind and soul.
There’s a big prejudice about tantra, and that is that it is all about sexuality. Reality about pure tantra is that it is about accepting your whole body including all it’s functions. Feelings, sexuality and sensuality are long forbidden words, so accepting them in your everyday life might need some more attention towards these words. Even though we know every human is born due to an act of love and sexuality, we learned to believe you should not talk or think about it. Result of making things forbidden is always an overexposure. Nowhere in history where more alcohol abusers then in the big drought in the States. Now we have the excess of pornography and physical and sexual abuse, because what is not talked about, is lived in the mind.
And if it is from the innocent, the pure, then there is nothing more beautiful than two souls finding each other, dancing their dance of love with all sensuality and playfulness involved. Leading to an ultimate being together, where sexuality is nothing than raising each others energy to a state of bliss. In the Far East they say that making love in this way can lead to the opening of the kundalini channel and uniting of these channels above the crown chakra, so there is a moment of Satori, enlightenment. This searching for enlightenment is the goal of the soul, to experience moments of being one with the Divine
Tantra is the ultimate love for the Divine You
Tantra is the way of opening up to being free, feeling free and seeing the physical and sexuality as an honoring of your physical temple in relation with another ones physical temple, or as a practice of love for one self.
First of all, when going for a tantric massage, you will have a talk with the massage therapist. He or she will ask you questions about your boundaries, your preferences in touch, your wholeness of your body. Then there will be the question if he or she is allowed to touch you everywhere. And everywhere is literally everywhere… that is also a massage of the yoni or lingam. The tantric massage is not with a happy end, but in case there will be a spontaneous orgasm or ejaculation, there will be no shame or rejection. The massage therapist is capable of handling the emotions that can come free due to the surrendering, the touch or the arousal.
The basic principle of this massage is that you are the receiver and the massage therapist is the giver. There will be no change of roles within or during the massage. As a receiver you only have to experience, wonder, surrender and enjoy. Like my teacher thought me:
There is nothing to archief, no goal to reach, just a surrendering to the love coming your way.
The unique path of tantra is the path of love. Love unconditionally. Where the body is our holy temple, where the mind is the books in the temple and the soul is the altar. The temple is build around the altar and every scratch on the walls or windows of the temple is noticed by the altar, But the altar is not affected. When two temples are connected, two people in love, then the rising of energy can be felt in the body. With tantric practices, slowing down and breath work, the energy of connecting can awaken both’s kundalini energy, and this awakening can lead to the fully opening all the chakra’s towards each other. all the chakra’s and from there the kundalini channel from the root to the crown. Imagine having the most amazing orgasm; the one where two souls melt together for a short time. A short time of Satori, enlightenment, where the kundalini sprays out of the crownchakra and as a fountain of eternal energy flows back in the aura towards the root, to renew the flow through the. spinal channel. That experience is more than a full body orgasm, and is longed for by so many souls.